I’m totally loving posting about my friend’s wedding! Weddings are just so happy and fun! Being part of the wedding party also means that I don’t get to hold my phone so there are chunks in between with no pictures. You’ll see where it is (as you’ve seen in the previous sections) but when I had my phone, I tried to get in some shots, either with the DSLR in the hotel suite or with my phone during the day 🙂
5am: My alarm went off!
As I was brushing my teeth, the knock came and I let in the make up artist with my mouth full of foam and she kept asking me questions. Talk about embarrassing. Anyways, before long I was sitting in her lighted setup with her lamp and all her equipment and having a full on makeup. I never put on a lot of makeup and honestly, I know very little about it. This is what I looked like after the make up session.
And the shameless selfies start! 😉 I’m telling you, I looked in the mirror and I was like, “Is that me?” After that I sat around while the one next up was doing hers and we got to enjoy a beautiful sunrise, or its just watching the sky go from dark to bright.
Between this and finding time to get us some liquid fuel downstairs, such tea, coffee and juice for our unscheduled breakfast, eventually we all woke up by the time the hairdress arrived a little after 7am. As I did make up first, I also went first for hair and that was crazy because I have A LOT of thick hair. Plus, the bride made it a point that I shouldn’t cut my hair or thin it before the wedding, so here I was, sitting for what seemed like forever, and I’m pretty sure putting all the girls behind schedule because of my ridiculous amount of hair.
Lets go to see what I look like with my second transformation:
I’m going to get sick of seeing myself after this post. I promise, at least 3 months with no selfies..or I’ll try 😛 Oh, and excuse the pyjamas…
Before long, time was running short and we ended up telling the groom and his group to wait outside as we did the final preparations for the bargain and door games. No pictures there because I was busy setting and organizing and talking. The rundown looked something like:
1. Bargain ($389 was the final settled amount)
2. Contract (by the request of the bride)
3. 1st part of marriage: Sweet –> Hersheys Kisses Cookies n Creme
4. Acrostic Name Game with the bride’s first name
5. 2nd part of marriage: Sour –> peeling and eating a lemon
6. Group Yoga Poses
7. 3rd part of marriage: Bitter –> Condensed Black Coffee
8. 4th part of marriage: Spicy –> Hot Korean Cup Noodles Instant Soup
9. Serenading the bride with a Cantonese Love Song (supposed to be one but the bride requested a second one)
I don’t think anything turned out too be too hard. It should have been worse and more cruel but we were REALLY tight on time. Yoga poses were a bit funny since no one could stay still for even 10 seconds. The singing had to be the best and I think the bride will have a blast watching the video afterwards. 😉
Next up is the tea ceremony from the bride’s side which was in the hotel suite.
Such a sweet picture, right? Well, they can tell me to take it off if they think its too much. Either way, the bride is in the traditional Chinese wedding dress. After this, we had to go down to the reception hall to proceed with the bigger groom’s side of the family’s tea ceremony. I had to hold mine and the bride’s bouquet as she did this so no pictures. During the tea ceremony, the older family, especially parents usually give gold and/or pearl jewellery to the bride and groom as gifts. The more gifts they get, the more loved and cherished they are.
Next part, also I have no pictures is the actual wedding ceremony. I really wanted to have a picture of the bride’s gown since her friend designed it for her so its absolutely unique. Moving on, the ceremony was great. Everything went as planned except for two reading and speech that was taken out. Me and the best man was the witness to the wedding. Then it was pictures with the couple and cocktail, where we got to breathe just a little before heading into the reception. Also, the bride and groom actually sang All I Ask Of You from Phantom of the Opera and I almost burst into tears.
The reception was done beautifully and the banquet hall was in a lovely shade. Also, the wedding was special because there was a theme of space and masquerade for their love of Spaceballs and Phantom of the Opera (hence the song for the ceremony). And we walked in to Masquerade. Totally cool! 🙂
At this point in time, I’ve had exactly one cup of tea and one glass of punch in my body so we’re moving on to the banquet lunch! WOOHOO! 🙂
As for the speech that I was only notified 2 days before, it ended going through this weird phase of the bride telling me that we were not doing and then after I had started drinking with some new friends (a vodka shot and this thing called Fuzzy Ripple, I think), and she came back and told me that the speech was back on, which was short and a bit weird in afterthought, but hey, you know what, it doesn’t matter. They know that I wish them the absolute best and that they have my blessing 🙂 After that slightly embarrassing moment, I went back to drinking and had this improvised Jagerbomb (not sure if thats how you spell it) and then it was this shot with banana liquor. Weird, eh? I don’t usually drink so much and I was still alive afterwards. Not bad, eh? 😉 And to top it off, I got a cranberry vodka to finish off the evening.
This was the first big event that my boyfriend and I have attended together.
I really love this picture! 🙂
My friend’s wedding was just so beautiful! It was fun. I meet a few new friends and got a few additional friends on Facebook. Plus, I reunited with some school friends: university/college.
Overall, a beautiful morning, afternoon and weekend. It may have been sleepless and put my schedule all over the place but it was priceless 🙂 Reminds me also that I need to reconnect with friends since I’ve been quite the hermit these days but with work, who has time,right?
I don’t know about you but this year seems to be wedding bombs all over the place. I have two more wedding invites this year already.
How about you? Any weddings to attend this year?
5 thoughts on “My Friend’s Wedding Part 3!”
you looked beautiful!
I love the bride’s dress!
Kim, you look fabulous! The games looked like fun.
Trust me! Ours was way more intense 😉 We also had more time and more planning. But this one, we aimed for the meaning behind everything 😉
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